Lately I have been focused on my happiness.
What makes me happy?
Why should I be happy? What do I have to be happy about?
Why am I not happy?
What can I do to be happy? What can I change??
My mind is filled with these thoughts. Sometimes more positive, sometimes more negative. Obviously, the positive side is much more enjoyable. And I’m happy to say that positive thoughts have been becoming more numerous.
Happier thoughts have been dominating my mind because I have been making changes in my life. Good changes.
I stopped doing things that made other people happy and not myself. I stopped doing things that I was only doing because I should, things I didn’t enjoy. I stopped thinking “I can’t” and started thinking “I can”. I started focusing on my goals, not on petty arguments, problems and fake friends.
Yes, it took a lot of time and I am definitely still working on it.
I have also been trying to focus on why I should be happy… what reasons do I have? And I make a list.
So, I’m challenging YOU to make a list of at least 50 reasons you have to be happy. Write your reasons out, make it pretty and colorful, then tape it somewhere you will always see it. Read them everyday, think about them, focus on them. Be grateful for them.
Maybe it will be hard for you to get to 50, I know I struggled finding all 50 reasons- but they are there!!
Here is my list:
- I am alive
- I am able to breathe on my own
- I have a fully-functioning body that is capable of anything
- I am loved
- I have the best parents I could ever ask for
- I have perfect vision
- I have two amazing best friends
- I have a sister who is always there for me
- I am intelligent
- I have been to a lot of cool places
- I live in a free country
- I have a good work ethic
- My parents have jobs they love
- I get along with my parents
- Jesus Christ died for me and is my Savior
- God loves me
- I am becoming more positive everyday
- The Earth is filled with so many opportunities available to me
- I am starting not to care what others think of me
- I can do anything I set my mind to
- I have a comfortable and warm bed to sleep on every night
- I always have food to eat
- I always have water to drink
- I have precious nieces and nephews whom I adore that make me happy
- I am content with who I am
- God is stronger than my fears
- I am willing to make changes for the better
- I am in control of my life
- Because I can make a mean smoothie bowl
- The confidence I have in myself is growing
- The self love I have for myself is growing
- I try my best to make every day a good one
- I am pretty good at time-management (but there is always room to improve)
- I am kind, caring, and loving
- I try my best to never give up
- I can get along with people
- I am healthy
- I am single and happy that way (even though I do love my romance books!)
- I have made someone’s day before, probably multiple times
- I am not alone
- My yard is filled with beautiful plants my mom planted
- I have the best teacher in the world
- I have goals and will reach them
- Because I can eat nut butters and roasted veggies all I want
- I have brought happiness, joy and laughter to someone’s life before
- I am worthy
- The world is beautiful and magnificent
- I have made a difference in someone’s life
- I know the feeling of laughing until it hurts
- The sun will always shine if I let it
Hopefully this inspired you in some way.
DROP EVERYTHING AND WRITE!